A video of a bullied young man searching and asking for friends has gotten a lot of attention online.
People are not meant to be totally alone and to live a life without human interaction. No, humans need and crave relationships with others. Relationships of all kinds, whether they be romantic or of the friendly, platonic variety, are needed by everyone. Humans simply need other humans.
Shayden Walker is a 12-year-old boy, and as the video posted to YouTube shows, he desperately needs some people to be his friends.
The clip, recorded by a doorbell camera, begins with young Shayden standing on a porch, conversing with the homeowner. Seconds into the video, Shayden makes his reason for darkening the man’s front porch clear.
“I just wanted to see if you, if you knew any kids around, like, 11 or 12 maybe,” he said. “’Cause I need, I need, I need some friends, like really bad.”
But the young man continues to open up to the homeowner, stating that some children his age in the neighborhood are no longer his friends. They have mistreated him, Shayden said.
“They’re not my friends anymore ‘cause they’re bullies to me,” he said.
However, since the video of Shayden was posted online and went viral, things have turned around for the young man.
Not only has Shayden since become like family to the man heard in the video, his wife and the couple’s 2-year-old daughter, but he has also found what he was looking for from the beginning: friends.
Shayden reports that he has made several new friends since the video. Additionally, the young man feels immeasurably better about himself and his situation.
“My confidence has gone through the roof,” he said.
A little love, care and kindness can make all the difference in someone’s life. Everyone needs a friend now and then.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 “Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their work. And if one has a fall, the other will give him a hand; but unhappy is the man who is by himself, because he has no helper.”